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Dating annd relationship coach for women

Discover how to date intentionally…Meet the right match for you…Put the joy back in dating…

… all while being true to yourself!
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Hello! It’s nice to meet you.

Close-and-personal coaching for women ready to take charge of their dating life

Tired of dead-end online dating matches or awkward dates?
Are you finding it challenging to put yourself out there?

This is the place for you. 

I help women overcome the beliefs, behaviours, and insecurities that could be holding them back from moving forward into their dream relationship. I stick by your side every step of the way, facing any anxieties together and mastering new and improved communication skills that would allow you to set boundaries with kindness.

It all starts with growing into who you want to be. Then forming a vision of what you want in a partner, and then getting ready to make it happen. 

Form a vision of your future partnership

You deserve to feel in charge of your dating life and to design and build a clear vision of your romantic future.

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So, what’s really holding you back?

How to remove limiting beliefs

I spent years dating in my mid-40s and quickly learned that most people on the dating scene have a long checklist of criteria and want to be swept off their feet by the “one”. But, they are missing the most foundational part of a successful dating life. 

This can cost people years of dating or make them give up on dating altogether—leaving them thinking “Where have all the good men gone?”

What they don’t realise, is that without first having a genuine connection with themselves—it just isn’t going to happen! 

Here’s the thing:

Until you tune into your true self and connect with your feelings, allow yourself to be vulnerable, and confront your limiting beliefs, you won’t be able to

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You’re motivated to improve your dating life and build genuine, meaningful connections. 

But...
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You don’t seem to meet any “good” single men in your day-to-day life. Most men around you seem to be taken. Most of your friends are coupled up.

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You’re feeling disillusioned by the online dating landscape. Connections don’t materialise into dates, texting fizzles out, and you’re worried about what may happen next.

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You’re nervous about going on dates, and unsure how to make the conversation meaningful, and you’re unable to know how to trust (or when to trust) your match.

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When you do meet someone you actually like and feel a deep connection with, you keep second-guessing yourself and fear you are pushing them away.

Allow yourself to have a light, fun, adventurous dating experience

I will guide, support and empower you every step of the journey, equipping you with relationship advice for women and the right tools to attract and build a relationship based on trust and respect — full of fun adventure, plus opportunity for growth!

The truth is you’re here to live the life you deserve, sharing moments of intimacy with a romantic partner who respects and values you, living a partnership where you grow alongside, supporting each others’ goals and dreams.

Shared moments of intimacy

Be unapologetically you - and put the joy back into your dating life. Now’s your time to experience that magical feeling of love and belonging.

DM me 'I'm ready'

One-on-one purposeful dating coaching for women

Weekly coaching sessions using NLP & somatic coaching techniques
Guidance and support in between sessions whenever you need it
The opportunity to be a part of a community of like-minded people

So you can:

  • Gain clarity of your goal, focus on what you want, and learn how to achieve it.
  • Know your values and live them every step of the way in achieving your goals.
  • Challenge limiting beliefs and reinforce positive ones by giving tasks that provide feedback.
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You’re in good hands

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She has a natural ability to provide a safe and caring space in which one can face one's past from the vantage point of a comfortable and achievable future. Throughout this time I have found Rea to be an excellent listener.
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Sara
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Rea helped me so much to understand what I’m exactly looking for as well as the online dating landscape which can be daunting! Rea has a great sense of understanding you even when some things can’t be put in words.
Amanda
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Rea was a wonderful teacher and guide. She made me feel seen, understood and not judged. She shared her knowledge with humility and kindness and immediately made me feel safe and at ease.
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The coaching with Ms. Shahroudi took place over a two months period, sharing and releasing triggers one by one while activating solutions to also strengthen my confidence through guided exercises.
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Frederic
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She has a natural ability to provide a safe and caring space in which one can face one's past from the vantage point of a comfortable and achievable future.
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Sara
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Rea helped me so much to understand what I’m exactly looking for as well as the online dating landscape which can be daunting! Rea has a great sense of understanding you even when some things can’t be put in words.
Amanda
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The coaching with Ms. Shahroudi took place over a two months period, sharing and releasing triggers one by one while activating solutions to also strengthen my confidence through guided exercises.
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Frederic
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Rea was a wonderful teacher and guide. She made me feel seen, understood and not judged. She shared her knowledge with humility and kindness and immediately made me feel safe and at ease.
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Clare

One-on-one purposeful dating coaching for women

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Gain clarity on your values and vision
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Start dating in alignment with your values 
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Overcome your fears and remove blocks
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Shift past relationship patterns
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Be confident in your skills and choices
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Feel comfortable in your dating journey

And feel supported along the way.

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I’m Rea, your coach.

I follow an empathy-led approach, with a non-judgmental attitude and authenticity throughout any coaching. I believe that all people are resourceful, purposeful, and have a lot of potential.

After spending years dating in my mid-40s in London, I realised the problem with the dating process is that many people are trying to find a partner based on a checklist while having patterns and limiting beliefs that hold them back. I embarked on a journey of self-discovery, healing, acquiring knowledge and skills, pushing myself out of my comfort zone, believing, and trusting. I met many interesting people, had a couple of heartbreaks, and had a few a-ha moments along the way. It was not an overnight transformation. It was a process, a journey, a stretch…

After working on myself and practicing better communication, I met a wonderful partner in the most unexpected circumstances on a dating app but also found my true vocation; helping others to do the same. I want to share all I have learned with other women looking for a committed relationship to experience a smoother journey and experience the wonderful feeling of building with a loving partner with a growth mindset.

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I trained in NLP and somatic coaching and am now a certified NLP practitioner with somatic coaching skills. My mission is to make the dating process a journey of self-discovery, growth, relationship skills building, and a fun adventure. I call this intentional and conscious dating.

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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

What is Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP)?
NLP is a set of techniques proven to help with personal effectiveness. It empowers, enables, and teaches us to better understand the way our brain (neuro) processes the words we use (linguistic) and how that can impact our past, present, and future (programming). It gives us strategies for observing human behaviour and learning from it. 
A few key NLP presuppositions are :
  • Behind every behaviour, there is a positive intention
  • Anything can be accomplished if the task can be broken into small enough chunks
  • People already have all the resources they need
  • There is no such a thing as failure, only feedback
  • If what you are doing is not working, do something else!
  • Energy follows the intention
What coaching packages do you offer?
I only offer one-to-one personalised coaching as I believe each person’s needs and where they are in their journey are unique. I provide individual ad hoc 60-minute coaching sessions. However, for transformation to happen, there needs to be commitment and investment in oneself.

If you are considering starting dating or have just started, my 4-week Dating Foundation Program may be the right starting place for you to give you the right mindset and tools to navigate the modern dating landscape.
If you have been dating for a while and are committed to finding your life partner, I recommend my 9-week Dating Mastery Roadmap, where we embark on a journey of relational discovery and building skills for a transformational dating experience.

Both programs include weekly coaching sessions with access to me in between sessions.

If this resonates, book a free 30-minute Dating Empowerment Discovery call with me to discuss your most significant challenges and goals and see if it is a fit to do more work together. I am committed to supporting and empowering you to build the relationship of your dreams. 

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